I am a believing Virgo and this is my view on why you should not fall in love with a Virgo.
Virgos are some of the most real people you will ever come across in your lives. It is hard to meet anyone as honest and real as Virgos. Their brutal honesty, practical approach to life, and their ability to just be open about who they really are will force you to accept your true self. If not sooner, then there will come a time when you will become so motivated to be the person you always wanted to be, all thanks to the fact that you fell in love with a Virgo. If you are scared of realizing yourself, don’t fall in love with a Virgo.
They are the ones who are going to stand beside you when you make the decision to change your life for good. They will keep pushing you towards your goals. They will make you realize your fears in life and overcome them. They will stand beside you in your most gruesome fight of your life – The Brain vs The Heart. They will help you understand what your heart actually wants and why your brain keeps on saying no. The craziness is not a matter of concern when it comes to achieving one’s goals. That is the motto Virgos live by and if you are afraid of being crazy, don’t fall in love with a Virgo.
Virgos are pergectionist by nature. It doesn’t matter how much you tell them they are good enough, they will always find a way to look at the things they lack the most. They are good at heart and strive hard to achieve their goals, often overpowering others in their struggle to be the best. This leads to those around them assume that they are making them look inferior, but that is not the case. The truth is that they are simply trying to make sure that, at the end of the day, they are good enough for themselves. No, they are not selfish. They are just programmed to believe that everyone’s extraordinary is their average. At the same time, they are extremely modest and don’t like giving themselves credit where it is due. That is why Virgos make really good ghost writers. If you can’t handle them at their worst, don’t fall in love with a Virgo.
Don’t fall in love with a Virgo because they have a hard time letting go of their past and find it extremely hard to forgive themselves. On the other hand, they are usually the first one’s to forgive you and let of of the grudge.
No matter how high their own standard might be, they will never hold you to those standard. Virgos will value you more than anyone you know. They are well aware of the fact that it is hard to love because they struggle to love themselves. They will shower unconditional love upon you if they are loved the same way and would never judge you for falling short of their expectations. Exceptions do exist and depend a lot on the situation at hand. They love others so much that you wish they might just somehow channel all that love into themselves. But that is not the case as Virgos are not known for being self-centered.
Don’t ever fall in love with a Virgo if you are not down with conviction and a full life, including love and relationships. Virgos give it their all and never work towards anything half-heartedly. You will be left wondering whether you can keep up with the pace.
A Virgo will never stop fighting for you and will never give up on you. Ever. Your dreams and goals in life matter to them more than they matter to you. Their belief in your and your abilities will only grow as time goes on. They want to stand by you when you get there so if you don’t want them to be there, don’t fall in love with a Virgo.
Virgos are always work in progress. They are constantly fighting this inner battle to improve and be better than they were a second ago. Their mind is constantly buzzing with voices from their heart to keep on improving. Don’t fall in love with a Virgo if this irritates you but if you are one of those partners who can keep up with the self-improvement, then you will become an envious couple.